KITA terlalu banyak memikirkan apa yang berada di luar kita. Ramai orang menginginkan orang lain berubah.

Malah, kadang-kadang kita berkeinginan tetapi tidak kesampaian. Kita mahu negara kita berubah. Kita mahu orang berubah, kita bercita-cita mahu ubah pekerja kita tetapi malangnya anak isteri kita tidak mampu diubah.

Kenapa kita tidak mampu mengubah orang lain? Antara sebabnya kita tidak pernah memberi masa bersungguh-sungguh untuk mengubah diri sendiri.

Rahsia mengubah orang ialah dengan mengubah diri sendiri. Betapa besar pun hasrat untuk mengubah orang lain sekiranya tidak dimulakan dengan diri sendiri ia akan menjadi hampa.

Kadangkala hasrat untuk mengubah orang lain akan menjadi bahan ketawa. Orang di sekeliling kita akan menyaksikan cakap tidak serupa bikin yang kita laungkan.

Sebagai perbandingan elok juga kita fikirkan perbandingan ini. Kalau kita hendak membina rumah apalah ertinya kita memikirkan dinding, pintu dan atap sekiranya tapak tidak kita bina.

“Mulakan dengan dirimu,” kata pepatah Arab. Inilah kunci orang yang berjaya. Berani mengejek itu mudah, berani berhujah itu mudah tetapi tidak ramai orang yang berani melihat kekurangan diri sendiri.

Ramai orang berani melihat kekurangan orang tetapi jarang orang berani membincangkan kelemahan diri sendiri.

Sebenarnya mengubah diri dengan penuh sedar adalah juga mengubah orang lain. Walaupun tidak sepatah kata kita ucapkan untuk ubah orang lain, perbuatannya yang berubah itu menjadi ucapan yang sangat bererti bagi orang lain.

Memang pengaruh dari kegigihan mengubah diri tidak akan spontan dirasakan. Tetapi percayalah ia akan membekas dalam minda orang lain.

Makin lama orang akan simpati dan terdorong juga untuk turut sama berubah. Lantas bagaimana kaedah mengubah diri?

Pertama: Mulalah dengan mengubah diri sendiri. Bagaimana mungkin kita mengajak orang berubah sedangkan kita tidak berubah. Jadilah seperti ‘ketam mengajar anak berjalan betul’ nanti cakap tidak serupa bikin.

Kedua: Mulakan dengan melakukan perkara yang kecil. Perkara yang kecil-kecil jika dilazimi akan membantu dan memudahkan untuk melakukan yang besar-besar. Sikit-sikit lama-lama jadi bukit.

Perkara yang kecil jika sering diabaikan nanti berjangkit yang besar pun akan mudah diingkari. Banjir besar diawali dengan titik-titik hujan yang kecil.

Ketiga: Mulakan sekarang (Do it now). Jangan bertangguh lagi. Semakin bertangguh semakin melarat. Masalah yang kecil-kecil akan jadi besar jika dibiarkan.

Keempat: Paksa diri dengan sepenuh hati. Nafsu jika tidak dipaksa nanti jadi degil.

Kelima: Belajar menghuk** diri sendiri. Kalangan sahabat pernah menghuk** diri dengan berpuasa kerana mengumpat.

Keenam: Kena ulang dan ulang dan ulang dan ulang dan ulang kebaikan sehingga sebati dengan diri. Wassalam.

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